Fear Obligation Guilt

Fear Obligation and Guilt is a type of emotional blackmail which is commonly referred to as ‘FOG’, a contrived acronym- a play on the word fog which describes something that obscures and confuses a situation or someone’s thought process. This… Read More ›

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  • When you nod your head yes, but you wanna say no; What do you mean?

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